1/27/2016 (2341)

My cousin Jack Wifladt from Edmonton, Alberta Canada visited us here in Cebu. He arrived on January 15th and left last night. Jack’s mother and my Dad were twins.  We truly enjoyed his visit. Lots of fun. With his visit I missed posting the last three blogs, so this is a catch up.
Gary
Stokes 2311

 

Message from Ginger LaRocque Poitra (’65):  Belcourt, ND

I have been wondering how you are.

Thinking of you and Bernadette,  how much you have done for everyone.

Bernadette was always so helpful when we had a class reunion and so graciously giving of her expertise.

Gary you have made everyone so much more aware of their families and friends around the community. I feel that everyone is closer,  those who weren’t in days of old.

I for one, know more people who were around me all those years in school and never knowing who they were.  Now I at least know them some what better than I did back then. For that I am so very grateful. All because of you and the time you took from your wonderful family to bring a bigger family together.

I thank you from the bottom of my heart for bringing us all so much closer than we were as kids.

May God bless you and keep your heart as big as it is and has been, forever and always.

Bless you my friend and classmate,

Ginger (LaRocque) Poitra our class of 1965

Gary’s Reply

 Thank you ginger for this wonderful eulogy. I must say that I too have learned to know many folks whom as kids I really only knew who they were, some of whom I had never even seen or talked to. I think that was so true of so many in many of the smaller rural communities of our days too. The common tread being that we are a close knit community with common ties that we can all relate to.   

 

Lillian Thompson Bergstrom (’36): Superior, WI.
Reply from her Granddaughter Bev Rochon:   

Good Morning,
I am the eldest grand daughter of Lillian Thompson.
I stumbled onto your website by accident when I typed my grandmothers  name into the “search”.
Grandma has quite a few  relatives on Face Book and I was wondering if it is possible to share your site.  All of her grandkids, and some great grandchildren are members too.
If you have any pictures of grandma, class photo’s etc..
I would love to see them.
Thank you,
Bev Rochon.
Lillian’s first grandchild and grand daughter

Gary’s Reply,
Thank you Bev for this reply. Lillian to our knowledge is the oldest living to have ever graduated from Dunseith High School. Lillian’s mother was a sister to my my Grandfather, Frank Stokes. Lillian and my dad were first cousins. Ella Pladson was also a sister of Lillian’s.

 

Radom acts of Kindness
Reply from Aggie Casavant (’69):  Fort Mill, SC

In  this  day  and  age  of  rapid  change  in  which  we  live, I  find  it   more and  more difficult  to  find  anything  that really impresses  me  anymore,others  than  random  acts  of  kindness, like  the  guy  on  the  New  York  subway  last  week  that  literally  gave  this  homeless  man  the  shirt  off  his  back, and  his  wool  knit  cap in  freezing  weather….. I  couldn’t  watch  it  enough  times….I  was  so  totally  impressed,and  it  seemed  like  so  was  the  rest  of  the  world.  Today  while  reading  the  Dunseith  blog  I  came  across  the  picture  of  the  USS  New  York  made  out  of  the  salvage  of  the  World Trade  Center that  Alden  Allard  sent  in……totally  impressed….thanks  for  taking  the  time  to  share  that  Alden, it  is  so  interesting  to  look at, and  very  impressive.  Thanks  again  for  sharing.  God  Bless   Aggie.

 

Seim school picture in the late 30’s: Need to identify
From Vickie Metcalfe (’70):  Bottineau, ND

Gary and Friends,

I am on a mission to  help a long ago neighbor of the hills.

I received this photograph just this past Monday, January 19, 2016,  from Ursella; Carroll Carlson’s younger sister.

She seeks help identifying former schoolmates from her country school days. (She didn’t  not say  the year, I wonder  late ? 1930’s ? early 1940’s?)

It is  a  photograph  of Oakes Country School a.k.a. Seim Country School; on the front steps facing West, Teacher, older Youth and several children

This school was located  on the dirt road about one mile south of the John & Ingrid //Arthur & Eva Seim Farm///Peter & Christina Carlson Farm.

  1. The school would have been located, one mile North of Henry & Josephine Birkland farm site; a wee bit  shy where David and Eva Eurich once lived on a farm.

Ursella said the teacher, was a  Ms. Brennan.

Ursella is standing  by the teachers husband in this photo.

The teacher was probably the photographer,

(I do not know if the teacher would be  Mrs. Hazel Brennan  i.e. Mrs. Ross Brennan or a sister of Ross, Ray & John  Brennan)

Some of the  older girls are Ursella Carlson, and  friends Emilie Birkland, and Bette Eurich.

Ursella also  said there were ‘a lot’  Peterson children in the photo. (Max and Mary Awalt Peterson)

Thank you  all so much on this endeavor!

Vickie  L. Metcalfe

Seim School in the late 30’s
Need to identify
Seim School

North Dakota’s Six pack
From Vickie Metcalfe (’70):  Bottineau, ND

http://www.agweek.com/news/north-dakota/3867264-six-pack-rodeo-members-be-recognized-nfr

Gary and Friends,

Today’s January 18, 2016,  Minot Daily News front page was interesting. An article  and photograph  of  North Dakota’s Six Pack.

I was fortunate to have met good people who knew, were in awe of,  and respected the Six Pack.  I  also had the opportunity to work with

one of their wives who was a reading teacher.

Before I went to work in Sidney, I knew very  little about Eastern Montana.

Moving to Sidney was a rare educational experience.

The first few weeks,  I met children of  dry land farmers, irrigation Beet  farmers, people who owned oil wells, Cowboys and Ranchers,

descendants of Migrant workers, Sheep ranchers,  Dane’s who came to work annually  in the Yellowstone Valley, and rig workers.

The first day,  I also quickly found out how to respond when  asked what kind of  rig  I had.

Then, came a  learning experience in true cowboy culture and the “Cowboy Way”.

The people in ranch country of  rural western  ND and Eastern Montana hold good cowboys with high esteem and respect.

One friend who  I  often rode horseback with lived just over the Yellowstone in North Dakota.

Her husband saddled up his horse Pepsi for me to ride and we’d ride in the shadows of the bluffs.

I was leary and chicken about  rattlesnakes, I’d watch Pepsi’s ears believing in the horse sense.

The first spring I was  invited  to come to  their ranch for  branding.

She said  “branding” is the neighborly event!

“Sure”, I said, “How do I find where to go” in the big cattle pasture?

She gave me general directions then added, “If you get in the general area and see a butte;

Stop,look and listen.  I did,

It was a hot, dry, spring, midday when finally, I saw  dust and smelled burning hair… I knew I was close!

I drove over  another cattle guard and  grassy knoll.  There on the open  range was the cattle herd.

Cowhands of every age (5-75)   from the area were riding and roping. One guy  stood holding  the branding iron.

The younger guys were wrestling calves.

And a  cacophony of loud  bellering!

 

A hundred feet  away from that action tables  covered with cloths, laden with every kind of potluck salad  brought by the ladies; hot bbq beans and  roasters full of

warm slices of  roast beef, homemade buns  and cold beer and soda  provided by the owner.

Soon everyone stopped, ate discussed  when and whom was having the next branding.

There would be several of these events within a month.

My friend once told me, anyone can enjoy Montana  mountains but  true Beauty,  Eastern Montana, isn’t just seen with the eye, it’s felt in the heart.

And I hold Eastern Montana  fondly………

(Sorry folks I know its winter but I’m thinking spring)

Later,Vickie Metcalfe

 

Condolences to the Leonard Delorme Family
From Vickie Metcalfe (’70):Bottineau, ND

Gary and Dunseith Friends,

My sincere sympathy to the family and extended family of Leonard Delorme on his passing.

His cousin, Shirley (Hunt) shared her sorrow of his passing .

I recalled  when  ‘Lennie’  as a youngster, came to our farm with his dad, Leonard and uncle Tom Belgarde to haul hay bales.

Those guys worked hard  in unison in the summer sun.

Dad was most appreciative to have the hay brought to the home place stored and  ready for the sheep, cattle and horses.

Vickie Metcalfe

 

http://www.tollefsonfuneralhome.com/memsol.cgi?user_id=1736208

Leonard David Delorme Lenny
October 24, 1961 – January 20, 2016

Delorm

Leonard David “Lenny” Delorme, age 54 of Grand Forks, ND, passed

away on Wednesday, January 20, 2016 at the University of Minnesota

Medical Center Fairview.

Lenny Delorme was born October 24, 1961 in Rigby, ID, the son of

Amanda Poitra and the late Leonard Delorme. He grew up and attended

school in Dunseith, ND and later attended the North Dakota State College

of Science in Wahpeton where he graduated with a degree in business

management. Following his education, he began working for Automated

Maintenance Services in Fargo. He later started his own window cleaning

business and worked for various meat packaging plants including Greater

Omaha where he was the Manager of Engineering. He was united in

marriage to Lisa Peterson in 1986 in St. Cloud, MN. The couple moved to

Grafton in 2002 where he continued his window cleaning business and

later in Grand Forks in 2010. His health forced him to retire in 2012.

Lenny had a passion for motorcycles and riding horses. He was a people

person and loved spending time with his children and grandchildren. He

wasn’t just a brother to his siblings, but also like a father.

He is survived by the love of his life, Lisa Delorme, Grand Forks, ND,

children: Reannen (Kevin) Blake, Omaha, NE, and Karly Delorme, Ryan

Delorme, Danielle Delorme, and Leonard Delorme Jr., all of Grand

Forks, 12 grandchildren: Riley Hanson, Kyler & Khloe Blake, Jordan

Johnson & Grant Galloway, Caitlyn, Myah, Alivia, Ryan Jr., Ryder, &

Rydn Delorme, and McKenzie Pederson, mother Amanda Poitra, West

Fargo, ND, siblings: Denise (John) Lettow, Robert (Debbie) Delorme,

both of West Fargo, ND, Deanna (Patrick) Devine, Grand Forks, ND, and

Gary (Heidi) Delorme, West Fargo, ND. Several nieces nephews, and

friends also survive. He was preceded in death by his father and sister

Sandra Delorme-Peltier.

Born: October 24, 1961

Place of Birth: Rigby, ID

Death: January 20, 2016

Place of Death: Minneapolis, MN

 

Message from Lee Stickland (’64): lDickinson, ND

Y’ALL

This morning in a Care Conference I was informed that my health was too good to warrant my continued staying at

St Luke’s Home.

I was admitted on August 22, 2014 when the hospitalist @ our local St Joseph’s Hospital determined that I could no

longer safely live alone.  I was repeatedly falling flat on my face.   ( A TRUE faint/loss of consciousness is always

forward. )   { [seizures, from 1965 head injury] decreased blood pressure, heart stoppage>>>???}

 

My last fall at home was the fourth (4th) for the day, by 11 am.  I was standing in my apartment’s bathroom and ended up with my face on the new carpet in the hallway; blood all over. When I fell, I kicked the seat off

from the toilet, and broke other surrounding items.  In spite of my years of EMT training and experience with the ambulance, I failed to know enough to just put pressure on the cut; I kept trying to staunch the blood flow.

Don’t know how long I lay but when I woke I was not able to use my cell phone until finally remembering that I had

an app that allowed me to press a button for the first name of a friend.  He quickly sent his two (2) sons over.  I thought

they could maybe discover a towel that was not full of blood and use it to apply pressure and get me to the emergency

room.  NOPE—ambulance time.

9 stitches and 8 days later I was fortunate to gain my bed in room number 110 here at St Luke’s.  My seizures are now

in control, I have went through a battle with cancer of the prostate; beginning with a PSA # of 96.0 and being able to

get it down to 0.10 in just 6 months.  Dr. says my A1C, which measure my diabetes,is wonderfully stable.

 

THEREFORE: I no longer require skilled nursing care and can safely move to the Evergreen Care Cntr. where Dad was for 4 and 1/2 years.  I will be interviewed by two (2) ladies on Monday whom I know well.  One is the administrator and one is the front office person; each who have been with Evergreen for many years.  I look forward to new horizons, even though new curves in the road will present themselves.

The 88 year old gentleman who sits across from me at meals learned last week that he would be going to Evergreen on the 25th.  Nice that each of us can get better together and move about the same time. He likes to play cards and I like to read and write and work with the computer so all should “go just OK”

Don’t know what there may be for furniture at the Evergreen.  I may be sleeping on the floor.  As I recall, there is a lot

larger area for hanging up clothes, so that will be convenient.

” When A New River Presents Itself, I Will Just Have To Construct A New Bridge”    LEE      s       12:am        MST      1/23/16

Yours, as always:::Dad, Dad Lee, Grampa, Classmate, (A) brother, Uncle, 1st cousin, 4th cousin, friend


Posted by Neola Kofoid Garbe:  Bottineau & Minot, ND
dunseith news

 

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Blog (411) posted on March 29, 2009

Posted on March 29, 2009

From Vickie Metcalfe (70): Bottineau, ND

Gary, My niece, Justene Rae Metcalfe is a senior at Moorhead State University. Her parents are Shanon Clifford Metcalfe ,DHS class of 1982 and Debbie (Salmonson) Metcalfe. Justene is a young women with a broad depth of character traits. Justene is one of those college students that stayed behind to help sandbag Fargo this past week. Auntie Vickie wanted her to come home to the hills to be dry. Quoting her; “Justene said, she feels like it’s a cop-out to leave when you don’t need to and so many other people need your help… ” Her mom Deb said,” gotta be proud of her, even though we would really rather have her at home”.

Gary, If you please, I’d like to share a bit of Justene’s poetry (2008) with all your Dunseith readers. Many Thanks.

From Lee Stickland (64): Dickinson, ND

Gary and Bernadette,

Per our phone call last nite, here and on Sat of YOUR am, I learned that it was 91 degrees.

Sounds good to me; as long as the air conditioner is workingm, faithfully and steadily.

Gary, as always, a pleasure to visit with YOU.

Yes, the cost of airfare for YOU to Manila is quite bearable.

I have not looked at the current cost of ticket DIK to SEATAC, last check was $660 RT, ea

I wanted to send on a few records of the latest meandrous quirks of my thought process.

(please see subject line, above) – Subject line Re:conjurings of my mild meager mind

It is funny and fearful what can be located in OUR minds when we are quiet;

when we THINK.

“Some folks do not THINK, cannot THINK, will not THINK and never THINK of THINKING.”

“Men, like rivers. become crooked when they follow the path of least resistance.”

” If YOU don’t know where YOU are going, YOU will never know where YOU are when

YOU get there”.

__________________________________________________________________________

by lee

1

The horrors of reality need no out-shout the quiet voice of reason.

2

Talk with a man, listen to his soul

and YOU may see

that what YOU thought to be,

just ain’t so.

(The reference from TALK to SEE is certainly oxymoronic but that is part

of the point; misconstrued interpretations.)

3

Honest men are not swayed by ‘what if ‘ or ‘maybe’; they determine correctness based

on the best and most-accurate information NOW available and move on.

No time for senate committee hearing schedules to permit voluminous discourse.

Lines 12, 13, 14, and 15 are not my originals but from memory; of which there may be bit left remaining.

Dick Johnson,

When will YOU begin writing which book about the real story that surrounds Dunseith. I am not well-healed enough to offer a cash advance and have no publishing company.

Dad and I spent many hours “mentally touring’ the Turtle Mountains.

There would be a good possibility of a successful compilation of facts from the pioneers that are yet alive and able to contribute. I like to read personal accounts and to not read about longitude and latitude, i.e. where are we going and how did we get here?

Good talkin’ to YA, tanks fer yer earz Lee

Dunseith Journal News posted by Neola Kofoid Garbe: Minot & Bottineau, ND
Dunseith Journal/December 31, 1953/Shell Valley News