3/12/2008 (42)

Blog (42) posted on March 12, 2008
Passing of Millie Crum Rude – Dunseith High School class of 1955:
Dear family & friends,
 It is with great sorrow I write this email to let you know that today (March 11th, 2008) our mom, Millie, passed away.  As you know she has had a long battle with cancer and today, while surrounded by family and loved ones, came to an end.
 We are working out the memorial service arrangements and will communicate that to you in a follow up email.  Included below are some email/phone number contacts if you’d like to reach out.
 In the mean time we are putting together a slide show and would appreciate any pictures, videos or memories you are willing to share.  Please contact Melissa (Millie’s granddaughter) at mtarling@hotmail.com for additional information.
 Thank you for your thoughts and prayers…
The Rude Family
 Tarri (Rude) Steiger – cell 509-954-6996, or at Rude home 425-255-6942
Traci (Rude) Mercer – tracimer@expedia.com, cell 425 443 4671 or 425 736 7889
Thor Rude – tntrude@msn.com
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Message from Millie – 1/24/08
Good Morning Gary, 

I finally am looking at my e-mail — I haven’t opened it for about a month!  My health problems (cancer of the bladder that has spread to the lymph nodes) has really been giving me problems – I had surgery in Dec. 23rd and Dec 26th and am still recovering from those.

I will give some thought to your request for “memorabilia” and/or “stories” on growing up in Dunseith.  My family did not move to Dunseith until 1949 and lived there until 1955.  My grandarents (Oakes and Crum) were pioneer settlers in Dunseith.

I have 249 unread e-mails that I need to look at.  It was nice to talk to you the other night.  Keep in touch.

Millie (Crum) Rude

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From Don Conroy (56) – A Memory of my friend, Bruce – class of 1956:
Hi, Gary:   My daughter, Shannon, has sent me so many of your interesting e-mails that I have finally succumbed to participating in the process.  I was into it a few years back but you have developed such a network and I have thought it would be fun to send along a few of the unique memories I might be able to dredge up from the depths of a fading mind.
Bruce Poeppel was a special grade-school friend.  He was the best around in two unique skills.  And I don’t mean just a little better that most of the other boys—-he was way on top.  One activity was playing marbles using a four or five foot diameter circle.  He would cradle that “shooter” marble in his thumb/finger grip, breath on it once (for moisture) and fire it at a target two or three feet away.  The “shooter” nearly always flew like a rocket, unerringly, knocking a marble out of the ring while the “shooter”  sat spinning exactly at the point where the target marble had been.  Then Bruce usually cleaned out all the rest of the marbles.  It got to the point where he’d have to take a handicap in order to find competition.  I was amazed, always, when I was at his house at the buckets and buckets of marbles around the place.
Bruce was deadly with a slingshot.  Most of us might fire off a pile of rocks at a sparrow or a bottle and occasionally nail something.  I rarely saw Bruce miss anything he aimed at.  Of course one of the secrets to his success was the fact that his missles weren’t rocks.  Bruce fired off marbles.  His supply was, of course, never-ending thanks to we foolish hopefuls who thought there was a chance of maybe winning a few marbles occasionally.  With Bruce, it just didn’t happen.  I never thought much about it when we were kids but Bruce was extremely careful about the shape of the slingshot crotch.  It had to be in the form of a “U”.  Everyone else used the much more common “V” shape crotch.  Bruce would search for days to find that perfect shape.  In that era no one bought a commercially made slingshot.  They may have been around but I never saw one until years later.  When I did finally happen to notice a good-quality slingshot years later in a sporting goods store it was interesting to see it was of the Bruce Poeppel “U” shape.
Don, I just talked to Mary Poeppel, Bruce’s widow.  She told me Don died from cancer in 2001. I have pasted his death record below. Mary is from England. They met when Bruce was stationed in the service over there.  Mary will be moving to Yakima WA shortly.  I’ve listed her present address below. She said they will forward any mail that she gets.
I have also exchange many email messages with your daughter Shannon.  She’s such a nice lady.  My cousin, Neola Kofoid Garbe, knows her and initially gave me her email address when I was trying to locate you about 1 1/2 years ago.  Gary
Mary Poeppel
211 3rd Ave
Ellensburg, WA 98929
(509) 925-5741
Bruce POEPPEL – U.S. Social Security Death Index
Birth: 24 Jan 1938  State Where Number was Issued: North Dakota  Death: 24 Apr 2001
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Prom 1964 1978
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From Gary Morgan (54): 
Hi Gary & All,
Another Adrian Egbert Story…..I remember one day Adrian came into the lumber yard to discuss, with my dad, the feasability of a concrete vault for his grave.  Seems Adrian had been to the cemetary and observed what he considered and inordinate number of fat, well fed, gophers running around.  Adrian did not want his remains to end up as gopher poop. (unlike Dick Johnson, I can’t write like Ade talked) I don’t know whether Adrian got the concrete vault but if you visit his grave at Riverside Cemetary, you will note the concrete slab covering his grave.
Incidently, to round out the cast of “Desperate Ambrose”…Jim was Jim Footit and CC was Cecelia (sp?) Carbonneau. 

Gary Morgan
Class of 54

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From Cathy Campbell Springan (73): 
 

 

 

Gary,

 

Randy Flynn wrote about some of the messages going to his SPAM. I, too, have that problem although mine doesn’t seem to follow any pattern. If I don’t find a message waiting from you in the morning, I check my spam and pull it out.

 

 

Cathy
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Missing Message from Trish Larson Clayburgh (73): 
Hi Gary, 

Today’s email included a response to Flavia, but I don’t remember seeing anything from her.  Did I miss an email?  I thought I had read them all, but if you wouldn’t mind resending her missive, I’d love to read it.

She and I were classmates and friends the year she came to Dunseith.  I would love to hear any news of her life…

Trish

Trish, It was message (38).  I forwarded it to you.  Did you check your spam?
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Mel Kuhn’s (70) reply to Randy Flynn (70): 
Gary,
I would like to thank Randy {Flynn} for his explanation about the fire extinguisher. It probably explains why I’m partly brain dead. I’ve managed to fry a good part of my nervous system so along with getting to live with a lot of pain it seems I’ve misplaced a lot of memory. I worked with way to many farm chemicals and paints in my younger days. Now my children and other people’s children tire of hearing me preach about safety. Dick Johnson, with his excellent memory, is one of my keys to the past. I get up a 5:30 every morning looking forward to an e-mail from Gary to jog these old memories loose. About the every third e-mail, Gary sends on 3 different addresses and maybe you just haven’t hit the allow button on one of them in your spam filter.
Mel Kuhn
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Mel, Despite having been exposes to all those chemicals and bad elements, you are still a very sharp fellow today.  About my email addresses, I do use 3 and they are all good addresses for sending messages to me.  Outlook Express makes for easy management of multiple email addresses. With the volume of email that I generate, I need the versatility of all three email addresses. Gary
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Message from Rhonda Hiatt (75): 
Hi Gary,
Well I finally got moved, but still waiting on our furniture. I will be working in Portland, but just couldn’t see living there. We found a really nice place in Battleground, Washington and can see Mt. Saint Helens from our front yard. The one thing I don’t miss is the cold weather back home. It has been very very nice here with only a few days of rain.
When I had the internet and phone hooked up the guy came out and we started talking and he is from Balta, ND. I knew his cousins. The guy we are leasing our house called us and wanted to know if we had any questions about the place, and as we were talking, he said it’s funny your from SD, because I was born and raised in ND. I told him I was also. He was from the Wishek area. It is a small world!, and nice to know that ND is here also.
Still playing catch up with all your e-mails. Sad to hear of all the passings. My thoughts are with the families.
My new address and phone are below:
8907 NE 275th St.
Battleground, Washington
98604
360-666-3228
Thanks again for everything you are doing.
Rhonda Hiatt (75)
360-666-3228 home
502-664-9168 cell
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Bobby Slyter’s (70) reply to Patti Metcalfe (67): 
to patti metcalf: was it not amazing how well mom and dad could bowl, none of it rubbed off on their kids tho, the closest would be brenda, i remember the trips to water hen and hated those early mornings to
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Message form Tina Pladson Bullinger (78): 
Gary,
I love all the e-mails!!!!  It’s nice to read up on people from the old hometown.  Even though I graduated from Bottineau (as did Arlan Hagen), I still call Dunseith my hometown!
I was looking at the picture of the LaCroix girls, and am I correct in assuming that Lydia is a sister to Elwood?  She sure looks like him.  It is a great picture.
I’m glad you added me to the mailing list, keep up the great work!!  I especially love the stories and pictures.
Thanks for the picture of our group, I never thought I’d be brave enough to sing in public, but the guys give me much encouragement, and we do a lot of laughing, which is so good for the soul!!
Keep in touch cousin,
Tina
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Tina, Yes Lydia and Elwood Fauske are Siblings. Gary
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Picture provided by Neola Kofoid Garbe: 
Most of the Hills and Plains Gospel (Group?) are in this picture.
Dunseith folks with this group are Don Boardman (61), Dan Pladson (75)
& Tina Pladson Bullinger (78)
Hills and Planes 1978