3/27/2014 (1993)

No Blog the past two days
Folks,
With Bernie, our son’s, arrival I have not been able to get a get a blog posted the past two days.
Bernie arrived safe and sound at midnight Monday. Since his arrival Bernadette has had a rebound and is doing remarkably well. Bernie will be here until July 4th giving him lots of time get reacquainted with all his cousins and other family members. 
Tuesday night Bernie attended our monthly Expat dinner with us at the Shangri-LA. Yesterday he went bowling with me. Today he just left in a taxi for the mall with several of his cousins where they plan on eating dinner.
Bernadette, Novie and I have been invited to a buffet dinner at the Marco Polo for a good friends birthday. The dinner is on him too. For this one there is no Cebu Expat discount either. At a cost of about $40.00 per head for about 15 folks, the costs add up too.
Gary   
Stokes 1993-1 Stokes 1993-2
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Maui, Hawaii
Message from Margaret Metcalfe Leonard (’65):  Rolette, ND
Hi Gary and. Bernadette,  I’m sure by now you are relishing every moment of your son’s visit home!  We always love to have our kids so close we can reach out and hug them!  In this day and age, many times these opportunities do not happen often enough. I have plans to be in Cleveland for Chris’ birthday and I can’t wait to, not only see him and his wife, but have a baby fix at the same time!!!!  Makes me happy just thinking about it!!!
Sounds like the BEST medicine for you, Bernadette!   Make every moment count!
I’m sending this from the magnificent island of Maui!  The weather is so perfect, I am in no hurry to  return home!   Met a lady from the Philippines today and she said your weather is very similar to Maui!  Can’t beat that!!
Thank you Gary, for this amazing connection to our home town and the special people we’ve known and loved like family.  This is indeed a rare opportunity; I don’t know of another community that has ever done this. So kuddos to you Gary!  You’re a genius!!!  Sincerely meant, Margaret.
Margaret,
How nice to hear from you in Maui. I know you are enjoying the nice weather and the beautiful beaches too.
Being our class Salutatorian, you are the true Genius, certainly not me. Thanks for the compliment just the same.
Enjoy your upcoming trip to see Chris and his family too.
Gary

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Riverside Hotel Picture
Request from Colette Hosmer (’64):  Santa Fe, NM
Hi Gary,
So glad to read that Bernie will be there to stay for awhile – should be uplifting for all of you, especially Bernadette.
 
I want to ask if anyone has a photo of the Riverside Hotel that they could post.  I think one appeared in a previous blog but I can’t find it.  Thanks in advance to anyone kind enough to repost.
 
Colette
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Joke of the day
A wife asks her husband, “Could you please go shopping for me and buy
one carton of milk and if they have avocados, get 6.
A short time later the husband comes back with 6 cartons of milk.

The wife asks him, “Why did you buy 6 cartons of milk?”

He replied, “They had avocados.”

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Blog (57) posted on March 27, 2008
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Very interesting reply, for all,  from Erling Landsverk (44):
 
HI GARY
I WAS SURPRISED THAT YOU SETTLED IN CEBU, P I.  I KNOW THE AREA, AND IT IS BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY, BUT IT IS A BIT HUMID, IF I REMEMBER RIGHT.  I SENT YOU AN E MAIL LAST NIGHT, AND I MAY HAVE SCREWED UP, AND IT MAY NOT HAVE GONE.  AT ANY RATE I REALLY WANT TO ADVISE YOU THAT YOUR HOME IN THE HILLS IS EXACTLY WHERE I THOUGHT IT WAS.  I AM SO MUCH OLDER THAN YOU THAT I GUESS IT IS DIFFICULT FOR YOU TO ENVISION THE WAY THINGS WERE IN THE 30’S AND EARLY 40’S  AT ANY RATE, THE LAST TIME THAT I COULD  TELL ANYTHING ABOUT THE HILLS, WAS IN 92, AND AT THAT TIME OUR HOME AND THE OUT BUILDINGS WERE IN TERRIBLE SHAPE AND CRUMBLING.  I GUESS THE N. DAK. FOREST SERVICE TOOK IT OVER AND ARE LETTING THE LAND RETURN TO ITS ORIGINAL STATE.  I AM BLIND NOW AND EVEN THOUGH I CAN VISUALIZE MY LAST VISIT, I FEEL SAD THAT I COULDN’T HAVE SEEN IT ON OUR LAST VISIT IN 07.   I REALLY MISS THE OLD FRIENDS AND NEIGHBORS WE HAD, BUT YOUR ENTHUSIASM FOR RENEWING AQUAINTANCES AND OLD TIMES HAVE RENEWED  MY DESIRE TO CONTACT AS MANY OF OUR OLD CLASS MATES AS POSSIBLE.
ERLING LANDSVERK
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Message & Picutures from Dick Johnson (68):
Gary and Friends

Freddie and Margo Hiatt were good friends of my folks. Mom was
Freddie’s first cousin, as their mothers were sisters. We spent
a lot of time together over the years, and I have lots of
pictures of us together doing all kinds of things! These are
pictures of Freddie in the army, he and his stepdad Bill
Dunbar, the kids at their house south of town in about 1962,
and all of us together in the Lutheran parsonage{were they
lived] in about 1960. The boy in the middle is Terry Hiatt,
Dolores Hiatt’s son. I guess I was trying to shoot the camera??
I’m not sure if Dave and the rest have ever seen these
pictures. There are several more I will send later. Thanks
again Gary!!

Dick

Johnson, Dick 1993-1 Johnson, Dick 1993-2
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Important Message from Bill Hosmer (48): 
  Gary.  As the main message indicates, it might be a hoax.  During the
winter I live in Tucson, AZ, and there is a lot of violence here.
Unlike where we grew up and where we respected our women there are
some shadowy figures lurking about.  You may not want to introduce
this to our group because all of our dialog has been of such a
positive nature, but I was compelled to make it a candidate because
these wonderful people mean so much to me, and some live in
metropolitan areas.  I knew that many women would know of this sort of
threat through the Gary Stokes circuit, and could not resist the
temptation to use your marvelous format.  I leave the choice to  you,
and  give you more accolades for building this incomparable way to
express our loyalty to those with our common heritage.  In good spirit
and thankfulness.  Bill Hosmer
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NEW FORM OF KIDNAPING
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Please take a minute to read this. This is very scary and could happen to any of us..
Seems l ike every nice thing people do for one another can be perverted.
A new twist on kidnapping from a very smart survivor:

About a month ago there was a woman standing by the mall entrance
passing out flyers to all the women going in. The woman had written
the flyer herself to tell about an experience she had, so that she might
warn other women. The previous day, this woman had finished shopping,
went out to her car and discovered that she had a flat.

She got the jack out of the trunk and began to change the flat.
A nice man dressed in a business suit and carrying a briefcase
walked up to her and said, ‘I noticed you’re changing a flat tire.

Would you like me to take care of it for you?’
The woman was Grateful for his offer and accepted his help.

They chatted amiably while the man changed the flat, and then put the
flat tire and the jack in the trunk, shut it and dusted his hands off.

The woman thanked him profusely, and as she was about to get in her car,
the man told her that he left his car around on the other side of the mall,
and asked if she would mind giving him a lift to his car.

She was a little surprised and she asked him why his car was on other side.

He explained that he had seen an old friend in the mall that he hadn’t seen
for some time and they had a bite to eat, visited for a while, and he got turned
around in the mall and left through the wrong exit, and now he was running late.
The woman hated to tell him ‘no’ because he had just rescued her from having to change
her flat tire all by herself, but she felt uneasy .
(Trust that gut feeling!)

Then she remembered seeing the man put his briefcase in her trunk before
shutting it and before he asked her for a ride to his car.

She told him that she’d be happy to drive him around to his car,
But she just remembered one last thing she needed to buy.
(Smart woman!!)

She said she would only be a few minutes; he could sit down in
her car and wait for her; she would be as quick as she could be.

She hurried into the mall, and told a security guard what had
happened, the guard came out to her car with her, but the man had left.
They opened the trunk, took out his locked briefcase and took it down to the police station.

The police opened it (ostensibly to look for ID so they could
return it to the man). What th ey found wa s rope, duct tape, and
knives. When the police checked her ‘flat’ tire, there was nothing

wrong with it; the air had simply been let out. It was obvious
what the man’s intention was, and obvious that he had carefully
thought it out in advance. The woman was blessed to have escaped harm. (Amen.thank you, God!)

How much worse it would have been if she had children with her and had
them wait in the car while the man fixed the tire, or if she had a baby strapped
into a car seat? Or if she’d gone against her judgment and given him a lift?

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Berube 1993