Reply to Hosmer Question
From Colette Hosmer (’64): Santa Fe, NM
Hi Rich,
I was wondering the same thing (re: Eric Hosmer). From what I’m told, all Hosmer’s in America originated with two brothers who came over in the mid 1600’s so, in any case, we’re talking major “shirt-tail”.
Colette
Question
I see an Eric Hosmer playing for the Kansas City Royals in the World Series. Any connection with the Dunseith Hosmer’s?
Violence and the Marysville, WA High School
Posting from Vickie Metcalfe (’70): Bottineau, ND
Gary and friends,
For what it’s worth, as once again I throw in my 2 cent opinion.
As a small child, I lived in Marysville, WA.
I have wonderful memories mostly warm and fuzzy,
and one of deep sorrow of life there.
I have always considered, Marysville my second home town.
Yesterday, the awful yuck feeling came over me when
hearing about the violence at Marysville-Pilchuk High School.
Sadness, swept upon me today, reading… family violence.
A young cousin pulled the weapon which murdered his own cousins.
Then, took his own life.
Un-believe-able
1 cousin murdering another?
What is going on?
Kids need examples within families;
How to converse when sad, mad, glad and scared.
How to talk and listen as adults taking responsibility for their actions,
Seeing and hearing respectful apologies,
And experience sweet forgiveness.
I am so fortunate to have received all those gifts of love from my family,
from parents, aunts, uncles and cousins.
Vickie
Posting of the day
Posted by Doreen Larson Moran (BHS ’61): Usk, WA & Hazelton, ND
Grandma’s Invitation
Dear Family,
I’m not dead yet. Thanksgiving is still important to me. If being in my Last Will and Testament is important to you, then you might consider being with me for my favorite holiday.
Dinner is at 2:00.
Not 2:15.
Not 2:05.
Two. 2:00
Arrive late and you get what’s left over.
Last year, that moron Marshall fried a turkey in one of those contraptions and practically burned the deck off the house. This year, the only peanut oil used to make the meal will be from the secret scoop of peanut butter I add to the carrot soup.
Jonathan, your last new wife was an idiot. You don’t arrive at someone’s house on Thanksgiving needing to use the oven and the stove. Honest to God, I thought you might have learned after two wives – date them longer and save us all the agony of another divorce.
Now, the house rules are slightly different This year because I have decided that 47% of you don’t know how to take care of nice things. Paper plates and red Solo cups might be bad for the environment, but I’ll be gone soon and that will be your problem to deal with.
House Rules:
1. The University of Texas no longer plays Texas A&M. The television stays off during the meal.
2. The “no cans for kids” rule still exists. We are using 2 liter bottles because your children still open a third can before finishing the first two. Parents can fill a child’s cup when it is empty. All of the cups have names on them and I’ll be paying close attention to refills.
3. Chloe, last year we were at Trudy’s house and I looked the other way when your Jell-O salad showed up. This year, if Jell-O salad comes in the front door it will go right back out the back door with the garbage. Save yourself some time, honey. You’ve never been a good cook and you shouldn’t bring something that wiggles more than you. Buy something from the bakery.
4. Grandmothers give grandchildren cookies and candy. That is a fact of life. Your children can eat healthy at your home. At my home, they can eat whatever they like as long as they finish it.
5. I cook with bacon and bacon grease. That’s nothing new. Your being a vegetarian doesn’t change the fact that stuffing without bacon is like egg salad without eggs. Even the green bean casserole has a little bacon grease in it. That’s why it tastes so good. Not eating bacon is just not natural. And as far as being healthy… look at me. I’ve outlived almost everyone I know.
6. Salad at Thanksgiving is a waste of space.
7. I do not like cell phones. Leave them in the car.
8. I do not like video cameras. There will be 32 people here. I am sure you can capture lots of memories without the camera pointed at me.
9. Being a mother means you have to actually pay attention to the kids. I have nice things and I don’t put them away just because company is coming over. Mary, watch your kids and I’ll watch my things.
10. Rhonda, a cat that requires a shot twice a day is a cat that has lived too many lives. I think staying home to care for the cat is your way of letting me know that I have lived too many lives too. I can live with that. Can you?
11. Words mean things. I say what I mean. Let me repeat: You don’t need to bring anything means you don’t need to bring anything. And if I did tell you to bring something, bring it in the quantity I said. Really, this doesn’t have to be difficult.
12. Domino’s and cards are better than anything that requires a battery or an on/off switch. That was true when you were kids and it’s true now that you have kids.
13. Showing up for Thanksgiving guarantees presents at Christmas. Not showing up guarantees a card that may or may not be signed.
In memory of your Grandfather, the back fridge will be filled with beer. Drink until it is gone. I prefer wine anyway. But one from each family needs to be the designated driver.
I really mean all of the above.
Love You, Grandma.
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Blog (183) posted on August 6, 2008
From Mona Dionne Johnson (48):
Gary:
Floyd Pritchard’s wife, Ann, received her transplant lung ! last
evening/night, and her daughter, Pam, says she responded to staff and is
back under sedation for the day. Wonderful ! I am sure the family
would appreciate prayers, prayers and more prayers for her recovery and
reception of her new lung. I am so happy for her.
Mona Dionne Johnson (48)
Ann, I was not aware of any health problems you are experiencing. I hope all goes well with your new lung. Our prayers are with you. Gary
Folks, Floyd and Ann are the owners of the Birchwood up at Lake Metigoshe. Gary
Ginger LaRocque Poitra (65):
Hi Gary,
I am using my daughter Roxane’s computer, she’s the daughter who lives right next to us. Michaela lives closer to us now also, she moved to Belcourt a couple weeks ago.
Our summer vacation will be over on Monday, back to work we go. School begins on the 20th of August. This school year we will see some changes in our school. The Elementary will have a big school all to our selves as the Middle School has moved to the old High School because the new High School was occupied last school year.
I’ll write again. Nice to hear from all of you.
Ginger (LaRocque) Poitra (“65)
Ginger, It’s great to hear from you. I am glad that you are getting these messages all the time now. We thoroughly enjoyed seeing you and your sisters last summer. Bernadette really enjoyed your company and was so glad she met and learned to know you and your sisters. Gary
Request from Trish Larson Clayburgh (73):
Hi Gary and Sybil,
This will serve as your introduction to each other. Gary, I met Sybil in Cheyenne, Wyoming today and learned that she was married for many years to Augie Johnson from Dunseith. (Sybil was from Minot). She would like to be added to the “Gary blog”, and her email address is:
Sybil’s husband was a cousin to Don Johnson, Dick’s father, and is living in Minot. We had a good time noticing what a small world it is, and she will no doubt know many of the folks that write in, or are written about.
Sybil, I hope you enjoy reading the stories and tidbits that people submit through this wonderful web connection. I bet it stirs up a ton of memories for you, as it has for all of us that can’t wait to read the daily post.
Thanks Gary once again for all you do!
Trish
Reply/Omission/Correction form Bob Lykins (DHS teacher – mid 60’s):
Interesting. Cyber-space does some fascinating things. What you highlighted in red begins and ends a whole piece on characteristics that I sent in my message. I pointed out that living overseas gives us a greater insight into other cultures and other ways of thinking. It builds in us a higher tolerance for alternate ways of life. We tend to be bi-lingual while other people in the world, for the most part, speak only one language. I also pointed out that the nuclear family was much closer and tended to do more things together as a family unit while the extended family had less influence on us. I also said that those students who spent their high school years in schools overseas tended to gravitate towards occupations that would bring them back overseas as this was “home” to them.
Folks who live their whole lives in the U.S. have a hard time understanding this concept. Those of us who have spent much of our lives growing up, and/or living, and working overseas can relate to this all too well. It gives us an identity rather than leaving us wondering if we fit anywhere. We are “Third Culture.”
Bob
Gary,
Bob Lykins reply to Diane Larson Sjol:
Reply to Diane Larson Sjol.
It is obvious that you have found an occupation through which you can put your lessons from living overseas to good use. This is not at all surprising as this is the trend of young people who have grown up overseas. My two oldest children, who grew up in Japan and Germany, have gone on to such occupations. My son is with the Department of State and my daughter studied and sang opera overseas. She later also enlisted in the Air Force as a linguist.
As for my writings, you might try obtaining my most concise summary which can be found in the Kappa Delta Pi “RECORD,” Winter issue, 1986, pages 39-43. I have more recent work but this is a better summary. If you send me your mailing address I will send you a copy.
My studies have dealt primarily with the effects of living overseas on students and my writings reflect this. However, these characteristics apply to adults as well. Once Third Culture, always Third Culture.
Where did you live in Germany? I lived for 28 years in the Wiesbaden area working at Lindsey Air Station. I also worked at the Abrams Complex in Frankfurt and at Rhein Main Air Base. No doubt we were “in country” at the same time and our paths probably crossed on occasion. I worked for DoDDS and as an education coordinator traveled to all of the elementary and secondary schools giving workshops and working on curriculum. I was also active in overseeing and running several student activities at the Germany level such as the Konrad Adenauer Stiftung Seminars for students and Model United Nations.
It’s always great to touch base with a TCK (Third Culture Kid). You may want to do a Web search on the “Third Culture.” When I first started doing research in the subject, in the earIy 1980’s, I was one of a very few doing so. Today there are many. Even an outfit called Third Culture Family Services exhists in Pasadena, CA. Probably one of the best works I have read recently is the book, “THIRD CULTURE KIDS: The Experience of Growing Up Among Worlds,” by David C. Pollock and Ruth E. Van Reken, Intercultural Press, Inc., 2001. It is good material and presents a nice listing of resources and bibliography. It’s an easy read.
Glueck haben und Auf Wiedersehen.
Bob Lykins
Reply from Keith Pladson (66):
Gary/Ivy Eller Roberts,
I don’t go online everyday as some (perhaps most?) do, so had not read your input, Ivy, until today (No. 180). Wow! I knew many actors had served in uniform, but not all of the ones you named. You are so right about the current crop of actors and actresses we have. Interestingly, many of them are also in the 14 percentile of the population who would like to see all reference to God, Jesus Christ and the Ten Commandments removed from any and all Government monuments, edifices, publications, money, etc. Hmmm…
Keith Pladson
Reply from Glen Williams (52):
Gary…That was a great article on the 1953 football squad….Thanks to Gary Morgan..
Gary mentioned that Virgil Vanorney volunteered to coach the 1950 football squad to teach team members football basics, prior to our new paid coach arriving…that is true as far as it went….
What he forgot to mention was that his dad, Ken Morgan, also helped with the pre-season coaching duties…it was the combination Ken Morgan and Virgil Van.. that got the team off on the right track…as Gary mentioned …..
I think the team members all believed that if the two of them had continued as coaches we would have had a much better season in 1950 and 1951….
I believe it was not until Lincoln Jerstad (sp) became coach that the team really started having winning seasons…
So thanks to Ken and Virg…. They taught the new team all of the football basics….
Glen Williams class of 1952….
From Dick Johnson (68):
Gary and Friends,
The 1950 football picture and stories got me remembering some later
football playing we did at DHS. I don’t remember the year exactly, but
about 65-66 we were having a problem keeping Marvin Kalk from going
offside (crossing the line before the ball was hiked). Marvin was a big
guy and was one of us linemen. Real often he would tear into the
opposition as soon as the quarterback started his rundown. We even held
onto his jersey but he just couldn’t wait and often caused us a
penalty.. Other than that, he was a good player. One time the coach
asked how we were going to keep Marvin from jumping the gun? I think it
was Frank Evans who said, “Let him play center, he won’t go before he
hikes the ball”! It worked well, but Marvin would watch between his legs
to see if the quarterback caught the ball and the opposition would turn
him nearly inside out just about every time he hiked the ball! As we
charged the line we could hear poor Marvin howling on the bottom of the
pile, on the line! But he did his job and never went offside again!
Darrel Fassett mentioned the rivalry between Dunseith and Rolla. It was
the same when we played and probably still is! I remember when in a game
in Rolla, one of the Rolla players grabbed Dave Shelver’s face guard and
yanked it over backward! He could have broken Dave’s neck! Several of
the Dunseith fans ran out on the field in protest and here came the
Rolla folks! I remember it being quite tense for a while as the refs
tried to calm things down. It was so cold, and light snow was falling,
that the quarterback borrowed a pair of gloves to try to hold on to the
ball! Tempers still flared when stuff like this took place, even on a
cold miserable night back in about 1962! Thanks Gary!
Dick
The following pictures have been provided by Neola Kofoid Garbe:
This is a picture of my Dad, Bob Stokes, and Lloyd Awalt carrying “Old Glory”, the United States Flag, in the annual memorial day parade in Bottineau. From as far back as I can remember, Dad was in that parade, every year, and always carried “Old Glory”. Heaven forbid if he saw anyone anywhere mishandled, abused or even misfold the American flag. Dad and Lloyd were Ligonier partners for years. Dad and Lloyd conducted and participated in many military funerals in the Bottineau area. Dad is now deceased (Aug. 2000). Lloyd continues to be a very devout legionnaire and VFW member. Dad had the honor of having Lloyd fold and present the American flag to his family at his burial at the Ackworth Cemetery. I never asked Lloyd, but I kind of think dad requested him to do that, knowing that he would do it right and he did. Dad’s flag is now displayed, every memorial day, on his post, at the Bottineau cemetery. Gary
